The Importance of Crossing the Midline

Thursday, April 15, 2021
My mom was an educator - I always thought she was before her time.  There were so many strategies and ideas that she embedded into her teaching that were new, innovative and greatly successful in her classrooms and enrichment centers she ran.

One of the things she talked about quite a bit with me was 'crossing the midline', she not only had us at a young age growing up involved in many fine motor activities but made sure we were crossing our midlines often. 

I can remember she let us bang pots and pans with wooden spoons.  Can you imagine the noise level in my home?!?  4 kids - 3 boys and I was the youngest...they finally got their girl. 💟💕

My house was wild growing up, lots of commotion and friends over, lots of fun but most importantly lots of love.

Back to the pots and pans - that is actually a GREAT way to get a little one to cross their midline.  Place the pots strategically so they have no choice but to cross their midline as they hit them.

Crossing the midline

I can also remember weaving pipe cleaners through metal strainers - yeah I'm a product of the 70's so we used those. 😂  Another great skill to build fine motor skills and again cross the midline.  

Other great ways to implement this is:

* a game of TWISTER

* playing patty cake and crossing while clapping someone else's hands.

* playing tennis

* playing piano

* playing SIMON SAYS

* stretching

* finger puppets - have them pull them off their hand by crossing over and using their opposite hand.

* tracing an infiniti loop

* kicking a ball ( soccer drills )

There are so many great ways to practice this all important skill....why is this so important- I thought you'd never ask!!

So, first let me explain what this even means:  

The midline is an imaginary line ( think equator ) although it is vertical not horizontal that divides the body between left and right.  Crossing the midline is the ability to reach across the middle of the body with the arms and legs.  


This isn't the best example as I'm not standing straight but you get the idea.

Crossing the Midline Advantages:

Crossing the midline helps the brain build pathways that are extremely important for various skills.  Crossing the midline builds bilateral coordination, the ability to use two hands together.  We use bilateral coordination for skills such as dressing, tying shoes, buttoning, handwriting, cutting and coloring to name a few.  

Crossing the Midline

This is needed for printing/handwriting, copying from the board in school, early tracking - left to right.  It also develops gross motor skills such as coordination and balance.  

Neurologically, the lack of crossing the midline could result in poor communication between the left and right hemispheres of the brain.  Although the hemispheres work in tandem , we typically have dominant traits that labels us as right brained or left brained based on the tasks we are good at accomplishing.  Any activity that involves the movement of crossing the midline actively engages your brain.  If not skilled in this children can have mental fatigue that's why doctors and educators feel it's so important.  Some studies have shown that children expend so much mental energy focusing on gross motor skills ( due to a lack of crossing the midline ) that it negatively impacts their attention and working memory.  

Sadly, this is a crucial skill to have in their repertoire so that later they can be successful with tasks in learning that require a strong working memory.

If you feel your child or student has issues with fine/gross motor skills and you notice they are not well versed in crossing their midline...trouble with buttons, using 2 hands at once, printing, etc.  you may want to contact your school's OT for further assistance and screening.

Hope this helps you identify the needs of your students ~~ 
happy teaching!



Party Ideas, Fun Friday Tips ~ Let's Have some Fun

Monday, April 12, 2021
Y'all know we LIVE for Fridays but guess what?!?!  Kids aren't that sad about them either. 🤣

I know I loved having early finisher projects HANDY for when I threw a class party.  For one, there are usually a ton of parent helpers and they were busy.  That last thing I wanted was for kids to go talk to a parent helper when they finished up a rotation early and take the focus away from what the parent is doing.. helping a group of kids.

So, for every party I host I always have a little something something on the kids desks just in case they finish a rotation early.  Sometimes a rotation doesn't take as  long as another....other times a rotation requires 1 on 1 help and the kids have to wait patiently for their turn.

So, out comes my handy dandy fun friday fill ins.  It might be pin art, a self-paced directed draw or even a word search with all their classmates names in it.  

These fill ins are also perfect for FUN FRIDAY.  Let's face it ~~ with all the rigor in schools today we all deserve a little down time about 40 minutes before the bell rings on Friday afternoon....

Many of the teams I've been on have had Fun Friday rotations:  chrome book room for fun apps, outside extra playtime and then usually an  art project or game of good ol' fashioned Heads up 7 Up.

My Pin art packs or Fun Friday packs are PERFECT for these situations.  They are easy to print out and have ready for those early finishers at parties or a Fun Friday rotation.  You can't go wrong.  My pin art packs are thematic :  seasonal, emojis, letters 

If you are interested in grabbing the PIN ART BUNDLE - you can grab it here.  
It includes: 

pin art bundle - fun friday and parties

I also have pin art for each letter of the alphabet as well which you can find here.

My Fun Friday packs are monthly: both seasonal and thematic  ( still working on finishing them all ) - they include both pin art and self paced directed draws.  Click here for the National Symbol pack.

National Symbols fun pack

National Symbols fun pack

You can find my other fun friday packs in my store:

Fun Friday Packs

I just finished the APRIL fun friday pack which you can find here.

Pin art and directed draws April

As you can see these are EASY, no prep things you can do with your students to celebrate the end of the week.

Other fun ideas:

Go Noodle Dance Party
Head up 7 up
4 corners
outside free play
tear art
STEM activity
PBL activity
Flashlight Friday 
Handball against the teacher

I get it some weeks are L - O - N - G and it's nice to have a no brainer activity to round up the Friday, I hope these are helpful to you.  I know many times I was stuffing Friday folders and multi tasking while the kids were working on pin art...our work never ends.

Take care and happy teaching!



Teaching Ideas for April

Thursday, March 25, 2021
Springtime, the weather is warmer....and the kids are well... a bit crazy aren't they?!?!  Spring Fever is real y'all and if you didn't know that you must not be in education!

Welcome to another edition of...

I love Spring and the warmer weather, I love the longer days too!  But, spring time in the classroom can be a bit challenging at times.  They too are feeling the Spring break vibes ( just like you are )  But they are dreaming of long bike rides, fortnight and sleepovers...not mimosas. 😂😂

Here are some fun, engaging things you can do with your littles and their Spring Fever feels.

First off, if you are virtual or F2F this game is super fun and engaging for your kiddos!  They will ask to play this again and again!

digital phonics game

My close reading packs are super EASY to pop right into Seesaw for a meaningful aysnchonous activity.  Here is one of my Spring packs.

Close reading Spring
Grab it here.

I also have them for each month... here's the one for April.

April Close Reading use with Seesaw  
as well as one on insects... click picture to see more.

Close reading insects - use in Seesaw

These packs I have for every month - What I'm teaching for....
lots of seasonal goodies to work on all kinds of skills.

April printables

...and so much more.  Grab it here.

Did you know that APRIL is National Poetry month ?!?!  I have a TON of poetry packs in my store, in fact many of them are bundled because I have so many.

Poems for a year with Sight Words

These are PERFECT for all year long.  They are all written by me and mostly seasonal.  There is a focus on sight word practice and either inferencing or a reading comprehension question included.

I have several packs as well as some of them are bundled - you can find them  here.

Insects, frogs and farms are also fun to teach on in the Spring... here are some fun packs with crafts. ( perfect to display at  Open House ) Click images to review farm unit.

farm unit for primary

farm unit for primary

farm unit for primary

farm unit for primary

Pond life/frogs are perfect for Spring too.  Click the pictures to see more.

frogs unit

frog unit

frog unit

Another Spring time favorite is I right?!?  Click picture to check it out.

Butterfly unit

Clearly, there's lots to teach in the Springtime.  Lots of fun themes to incorporate into Open House too. 

Also, if you made it this far....I'm impressed.  Just wanted to add a  fun idea for behavior a.k.a. spring fever feels.

april behavior tips for elementary

These are editable and you can add your own goals on the jellybeans. Happy Spring friends!!



5 (ish ) MUST HAVES from Amazon for the elementary classroom teacher

Sunday, March 14, 2021's easy to fall into the rabbit hole of scrolling through #allthethings there.  Well, I wanted to share my MUST HAVES from Amazon that you just may love as well.  I feel like teachers could easily start an Amazon support group...raise your hand if you're addicted to Amazon too!?!? 🙋

Amazon favorites for the classroom

Let's see if you agree with my list below in no particular order:

#1  CHART PAPER MARKERS/aka Mr. Sketch markers.

There's really no explanation needed here:  If you love anchor charts you pretty much love Mr. Sketch pens #justsayin 😍😍😍😍

Amazon must haves for the clasroom

You can find them here.

#2 The Teacher Toolbox

teacher tool box for the classroom

Want to look crazy organized to parents ( even if your desk may be a disaster at the moment )... get this!  Parent helpers can sneak in the room, NOT INTERRUPT my teaching and go straight to my teacher toolbox.  95% of the time they find just what they need and can go about their business. It's seriously one of my most favorite things I've added to my classroom  🠞🠞  AND it doesn't hurt that there are some pretty amazing young adults sitting on top of it that I get to look at everyday.  😍 #proudmom

#3 Hair dryer brush
Save precious time blow drying your hair and making it look 💗👌👍

hair brush blow dryer

blow dry quick spray

This is A- MAZ - ING!  Not only does it cut blow dry time down but it makes your hair look smooth and perfect.  I love this hair dryer, it needs to be in every teacher's tool kit of important things! Along with this is the awesome quick dry spray...if you have lots of hair or thick hair this is a must have!

#4 Magnetic Towel Bar

I love my magnetic towel bar that I use to hang anchor charts in my classroom.  I don't have a handy picture of mine -

I'd love to give this teacher blogger credit but her blog doesn't exist anymore.
magnetic towel bar anchor charts

#5 Emoji Balls for Marble Jar

Marble Jar Idea

This has been so much fun to incorporate into my classroom.  I introduced these 2 years ago and my students went nuts.  It's funny how a simple little twist on something so mundane can amp your classroom environment up a notch!  They loved telling others about our fun emoji jar! 

Well there you have it... I'm sure I'll create other lists in the future as there are too many great things at Amazon!!  

What's your favorite Amazon purchase?  Tell us on facebook or instagram.

** all links above are through my amazon affililate **

Happy teaching ... ( and shopping )


March Ideas for the Classroom

Tuesday, March 2, 2021
March Ideas for the primary classroom

Happy hump day and welcome to another edition of....

I can't believe it's already March...

Here are some fun ideas you can include in your March planning that work beautifully for in person face to face, asynchronous, small groups or online.


digital leprechuan game

This game is so great because of ALL the OPTIONS it has.  Work on sight words and show a flash card on your ZOOM then have that child pick a number after they read it correctly, or work on math fluency.  Use with science vocabulary or comprehension questions.  When answered correctly have your student pick a number, one of the numbered coins will eventually make the leprechaun's hat fly off and the pot of gold appear.  They love this!  Find it here.

March Close Reading distant learning

This is perfect to drop into Seesaw or an online platform that you use for your students.  They will be able to mark up the page and interact with this product that reinforces fluency, comprehension and text evidence.  Find it here.

march class behavior ideas

My behavior bites are a fun way to keep your students focused all year but especially before Spring Break with Spring fever in the air.  You can grab them here.

March poem, bulletin board and craft

This is perfect if you need a bulletin board idea that's easy to print and put up, it includes a poem and fun craftivity too.  Grab it here.

If you are in person and want to add a bit of whimsy into your classroom ( these kids need #allthefunthings right now ) I have several posts on having a leprechaun visit your classroom for a week.  Not just the typical leprechaun prints in green and tables are overturned I mean like he visits for a week like the elf on the shelf.  My leprechaun was somewhere different everyday and left notes and prizes on their desks.  Just a little something to brighten your students' day especially after a pandemic year.   You can read the posts here and here and get ideas.

leprechaun handprint craft


So many fun things to do in March, I hope these ideas gave you a little inspiration!

Happy teaching,


When God says No...

Tuesday, February 16, 2021
Let's face it...we are wired from birth to despise the word NO.  Toddlers are the perfect example of this....that one word can turn a toddlers world upside down and ruin a young mom's day.   It's amazing how such a tiny little word can cause so much....pain, drama, sadness, anger, disappointment and discouragement.

Hearing no from God is hard....a closed door on a relationship, a closed door on a dream, a no to extending a love ones life's harsh and can take years to recover from the pain involved.
I've heard no from God several times in my life...
I've fought back on some of those nos and I've leaned in on others. 
 The leaning in ones...well those are the ones that bring a real sweetness to your relationship with the Lord.  The ones that have thrown me into fits of denial and heartache well, those are the ones I fought Him on ultimately.

Leaning into the nos from the Lord - let's talk about that.  It's hard y'all!  Really hard!  
But, over the years in my walk with the Lord I've learned that there are hidden treasures & rewards in leaning into those and not fighting back.

Let's go way back....40 ish years or so...I know I'm aging myself a bit. 👵  I started swimming back then, I fell in love with the sport and I was well --- very good at it. 🏊 Coaches called me a natural on my first swim fact the Southern California Coaches Association named me the Most Promising Up and Coming Swimmer at the ripe ol' age of 11.  A prestigious award that I remember not quite understanding the implications of at the time.  At age 12 I broke a record held by 5 time Olympian Dara Torres. 

early swim team days

Ha ~ didn't even have a cap on for that swim a thon.  That  must have been very early on like maybe a few months/weeks into swimming.

swim team early days

As time went on, I got better, more dedicated, more focused on this passion God had stirred within me.  He gave me this talent and I was using it to my full potential.  I swam before and after school, spent summers at the best training camps in the nation and had private stroke lessons by some of the best in the field both locally and nationally.

Doc Councilman swim camp

When I was in middle school I started receiving college interest letters and was competiting at the national level.  I had Seoul/Barcelona on my mind to be honest.  My swim journals are filled with words like: 
My Goal is Seoul, No Pain/No Gain, No Pain No Spain.  Swimming was my lifeline, my heart!

Guess what took 2nd ...yep...God.  Church was no longer a thing ( for my dad and I  ) as I had swim meets every weekend all over the state.  Mom stayed behind and took the rest of the family to church each week.  Prayers were conveniently lifted up just before I took the blocks before a race, and well...not too often after that.  At times late at night as I lay awake the Holy Spirit would convict me and stir my heart a bit and I would pray but my focus was all about swimming and not a whole lot else.

swim team

I swam and swam and swam.... I broke records, hit major milestones - qualifying for different levels of nationals and ranked high in my age group on many levels.  I missed football games, sleepovers and parties due to my swimming career.   But somehow it was always worth it to me.  

swim team

swim pic

Well let's take a peek at Christmas Break of 1986...I was 15 and was hoping to drop some time and qualify for senior nationals within the year.  I was training hard, in fact my coach at the time called Winter Break - Black Christmas.  He called it that for a few reasons - when we arrived at the pool in the am it was dark out and when we got out at night for our second workout of the day it was dark.  Not to mention the amount of yardage we put in was PAINFUL - therefore could be considered a bit dark. 😂

It was smack dab in the middle of that break and hard training that I got...sick.  My parents thought I had bronchitits.  I was barking like a seal in the middle of the night with coughing fits.  When I swam I felt like I had a piano on my back and couldn't get enough air.  It was strange - I had never felt uncomfortable in the water like this - I was certain I was 1/2 mermaid so this felt peculiar.

I took a day or so off ( which was very unusual as well ) and I wasn't getting better.  I remember at one practice in particular I pulled myself out of my lane and laid on the cold deck coughing uncontrollably.  My lungs had completely closed up and there didn't seem to be any air coming in at all.

We decided to visit a dr and take more time off which sent me into a panic as I knew a huge meet was coming up in January that I was training for...I couldn't afford to take time off. One doctor appointment led to another to another and I'll never forget ending up in South Torrance sitting across from a 'specialist' that had the gall to tell me that I wouldn't be able to swim to the caliber I was use to anymore.  Well, one thing you may not know about me - if you tell me I can't do something I push even harder to prove you wrong.  That didn't go so well for me this time around. 😢

They had run a battery of tests over a course of a few days, blood work, running around the building, up stairs, oxygen levels, breathing machines and in December of 1986 I was diagnosed with exercise induced asthma.  
My first thought was how can someone GROW into asthma, how can a conditioned, regimented athlete have asthma, this can't be right!!!!

I was devastated, crushed, beyond hope...I was sad, angry....wrecked.  My mom told  me that for months after 'quitting' swimming she would hear me crying in the middle of the night in my room.  

I didn't know what to do with myself....I had SO MUCH TIME ON MY HANDS.  I was use to a 5 am wake up call and swimming until 8 pm after school.  I submerged myself into a social life I hadn't had so much before, I got involved with ASB and clubs on campus and tried to fill the voids that way.

I missed my teammates, I missed competitions and I even missed training.  Ironically, I really was a fish out of water.

Well if you would've told me back then that I would've ended up at a very small christian college several years later I would've said you were crazy.  But, that's exactly what happened and to top it off - guess what!?!?!  There wasn't even a pool on campus. 😮🙀

My freshman year is when I first heard from the Lord regarding swimming.  It was a quiet moment in the parking lot of my college sitting in my turquoise bug when I heard the Lord gently speak to me.  He told me I was just where He wanted me and that I had made swimming my idol and He had to take it away.  I cried and cried in that lot....3 years after I quit.  I loved my college and knew it was where I was suppose to be but missed the pool still.  In fact, the 1988 Olympics came around my senior year in high school and I sat in front of my TV and bawled my eyes out as I watched it.  I was feeling a mixture of happiness for Janet Evans and others and a great sadness for me.

Fast forward..3 years later ( my junior year in college ) something phenomenal happened at that small college where 'I wasn't suppose to be.' ( in my mind of course )
I was sitting in chapel that we had to attend 3x's a week...just a normal day in chapel when something extraordinary happened.  A gentleman ~ the speaker we had that day caught my attention.  He talked about his ministry to athletes at the Olympic Games...offering chapel services and prayer for athletes and their families, witnessing to spectators and a host of other incredible ministry opportunities he had. 
 I sat in awe, I was listening so intently and I felt like the ONLY person in the room that was easily filled with over 1,000 students.

It was one of those GOD MOMENTS and yes that gentleman was there FOR ME!  
He flew from Texas to meet a So Cal girl at APU ~~~ that's the truth my friends!  I went up to him after chapel, he had a small line of kids waiting to talk to him.  
I introduced myself and my heart was racing, it was as if I knew God was doing something inconceivable right before my eyes.  

My hand was shaking as I reached it out and I said, "Hi, my name is Vicky McGarvey and I'm a swimmer."  He took my hand in both of his; looked me square in the eye and said, "well Vicky - I have an entire team in Texas that prayed I would meet a swimmer out here....looks like you're my girl."  WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!  ( He took former athletes on his ministry teams to the Olympics and was looking to finish up his team with a swimmer ) 

He wasn't even shook by this, he had a gentle, sweet spirit and said, "I knew God would come through, how would you like to join me and our ministry team in Barcelona this summer?"  No joke, within 48 hours I had a ticket to Barcelona to be a part of his ministry team Lay Witnesses for Christ.  

Y'all did you see what God did there!?!?!?  
He turned a NO,  way back in 1986 into a BIG FAT YES in 1992.  
All my life I wanted to swim in the Olympics or get to the Olympic Trials at was a HUGE dream God laid on my heart at a young age.  

Well instead of swimming for TEAM USA, I got to go to the Olympics on God's TEAM.  
What an honor....what a faithful God we serve.  He took a dream of mine, in a situation where I wasn't honoring Him or glorifying Him - and turned it into something beautiful that I never could've imagined.    

Sometimes God says NO and that's that...we may never see the reasons behind losing my mom to cancer within 6 months; time and time again I was on my knees begging God to give her more time with me and my kids.  Other times he says No...not now or not how you think it will happen.  

God's plans are ALWAYS higher and so much BETTER than ours my friends.  
If God has said or is saying no to you....don't lose heart.  You may have a remarkable experience later based on His no....or you may not have an answer ever.  But either way....I can promise you since (I've lived with both scenarios) ~~~ He is faithful and will provide just what you need every step of the way, even if you resist and don't lean into the NO you hear from Him.  Be  patient and trusting of your Abba Father....for He has great plans for you and isn't finished with you yet....Jer 29:11.

BTW I've continued to be a swimmer all these years and had my first meet in 32 years in January 2019.  I qualified for nationals in the 2 events I swam and captured a 1st place and a 2nd.  It was amazing!  I currently swim unattached for Masters Swimming.

masters swimming

Also My Swim Pro did a story on me, you can read more about it here.

Never give up....

Be blessed dear ones,